I recently had a really difficult conversation with one of my friends about their post-graduation life. It is safe to say that his life is not what he pictured it would be after college. He admitted that he wasn’t using his degree at his current job, and that the looming amount of debt has begun to encroach on his peace of mind.
I don’t know if it is just me, but after hearing stories like this, and many others I often wonder why I am even in school. I wonder if I had just gotten a job and started working my way up if I could have saved time and my parents money. It’s safe to say that I, like my friend, wonder if it is all worth it.
I’m not sure I have a final answer on the subject. I have heard amazing success stories from people who have dropped out of, or simply chose not to go to college. I have also heard stories of people who have had a really hard life because they were not able to attend college. I have heard of people going to college and landing amazing jobs based on the connections they have made, and I have also heard stories of how college was a waste of money and time. So with all of these stories, where is the truth? Where is the option that guarantees the most happiness and success? I don’t think anyone of these options are the final answer.
We as a society have elevated education and the “American Dream” to a divine standard. The generations before us tell us that getting a good education is the best thing we could do for our lives. We are priced up and given a value stamp telling us what we are or are not worth every time we slide our resume across the table. We chase the good job that pays well because without the money how is life ever going to really start?
Friends, let me tell you that life is already starting. It started way back when you were conceived and birthed in that hospital room. Pay attention to your breath for a second. Feel the rise and fall of your chest. See? Life. You have it. When we make our education and money and job status our god it’s no wonder we forget that we have life! Now, please hear, or rather read, my heart on this subject. I am a college student. I do think that college is an amazing gift that I have been given. However, I do not think it is the only gift. If you are not in college, then look for the gift that too. I promise there is one to be found. Yet, this gift is not some euphoric experience that would be shown in slow motion with beautiful music in the background on the silver screen. The gift that can be found no matter if you are going to college or working a 9-5 job. This gift is Jesus. Too cheesy for you? Yeah, well how are those college classrooms and jobs working for you as your god? When we work for our worth we will be disappointed every time. We will always need more schooling, another raise, a bigger house, or a retro airstream to make us feel validated and worthy. But with Jesus, we are not working for worth we are working from worth.
I will finish with this….
” God sent forth his Son, born of a woman, born under the law, to redeem those who were under law, so that we might receive adoption as sons. And because you are sons, God has sent the spirit of his Son into our hearts, crying ‘ Abba! Father!’ So you are no longer a slave, but a son, and if a son, then an heir through God. Formerly, when you did not know God, you were enslaved to those who by nature are not gods. But now that you have come to know God, or rather be known by God, how can you turn back to the weak and elementary principles of this world, whose slaves you want to me once more?” (Galatians 4: 6-10).
If you are in school, great. If you are working, great. If you are a drop-out great. If you are a graduate and are not using your degree, that’s okay. If you are successful in your job, great. These are all various seasons and realities that we may come to find ourselves in. Are they difficult? Yes. Are they joy filled? Yes. Just as the summer is hot and the winter is cold, so too will the seasons of life carry different characteristics and conditions. I’m not sure that any one given season of life is “right” or “wrong”. But I am sure that Jesus is constant in His love for you. I am sure that he is the way, the truth, and the light. So walk forward in whatever season you may be going through, and do not worship a god that enslaves you, but maybe worship the One that has set you free instead. Abbigail English, over and out.
Inspiration for this blog post came from Indie Tips.